No More Jude Law

Women always think of marriage as the end of a relationship. But when I got to think about my marriage until now....there were something actually quite ironic about it. No, no, it's not about the guy I'm marrying, but more to how I live my life now.

I am not a woman who cares too much about how I look anymore. Unlike back then when I was still running my single life, I would care so much about how my 49-kilo-body looked like. And how even a single fat on my thin abs would have taken me out of my mind. Is it true when women get married, they stop caring about how they look? Or is it just their men who actually tell them not to care too much on the way they appear?

Once, one of my friends, Cecile, popped out a statement that 'haunted' me down until now. "Aku sih dandan, pake baju dan pake aksesoris yang disenengin ama laki gue aja. Karena untuk gue, yang terpenting adalah bagaimana laki gue ngeliat penampilan gue." So, when you are married and you still try to look good not only for your husband, does it mean you are cheating? Because, look at me now....I turn off my diet program. I go to gym like only 6 times a month. I hardly ever wear contact lenses and full make-ups.

But I guess now, that is how a single life changes into a married life. It has changed from "open for public offer" to "not for sale". Because, no matter how simple I wear my dress or how not sexy my appearance is now, there will be no more Jude Law in the corner to flirt anymore. So yes...then...I think women should change the way they appear after they get married. (Well, for me...it's not easy...but I am trying to throw away those hot-looking-dresses).